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Defamer is committed to bringing you the minute-to-minute status of Jake Gyllenhaal and Kirsten Dunst's recently-disintegrated relationship and then feeling vaguely dirty about it afterward. The ex-couple were just spotted at Joan's on Third and briefly discussed their love life with the restaurant's owner. Jake was overheard saying that "Things are constantly changing. We love each other very much."

Still unknown: what the couple were eating, if they were headed off for break-up/make-up sex, or if Jake's dreamy eyes seemed clouded over from too many takes with his hand down Heath Ledger's chaps. The gay cowboy movie set changes a man, and we reckon a casual lunch with a good woman helps soothe the scars just a little bit.

UPDATE: Well, know we know what they were wearing: "He was wearing his sunglasses the entire time he was inside (Rayban wayfarers). So lame. She was cutely grunged out in ratty gym shorts, t-shirt and her hair loosely pulled back in a pony tail. I expected her to be super waify, but she was pretty normal looking - cute."